Can be someone be so selfish? I lose my phone, he has the phone that I lent him, I needed to talk to someone after my heart is broken. I wouldn’t check any of his private things, I just don’t want to continue seeing bad aspects of him, especially if it refers to lies, something that I really cannot tolerate. He changed the apple ID in my phone that i had given to him, and now it does not matter how much i tried it won’t work. So I cannot communicate with the external world. I won’t be able to go to work.